Meet Beljeet
Self Discovery Life Coach
Hi! I’m Beljeet.
I take people from feeling stuck and unsatisfied to empowered and purposeful.
My calling is to walk with people on their journey towards true self-confidence and self-expression. I show people how to shift from paralysing self-doubt to empowering self-belief; from being overwhelmed by emotions to having inspiring self-control; from approval-addiction to unwavering self-worth; and from fear of failure to living life with purpose.
SOME YEARS AGO, I WAS LIVING AN ENTIRELY DIFFERENT LIFE.
There was a time when I allowed my childhood trauma and adult losses to sit unacknowledged beneath the surface. I felt confused and afraid – unsure how to shift from where I was to where I wanted to be.
And then I came to understand the power of choice. We always have two options: choose to stay the same and simply survive or choose to live a life with purpose empowered by self-belief. For a long time, I chose the former. Today, I live the latter.
While my childhood was no fairytale, I found confidence, happiness and peace as a young adult. I had the privilege to marry the love of my life, raise three wonderful children, migrate to a new country and discover my ideal career. My new, blissful identity encompassed being a wife, a mother and a career woman – I was happy. And then, just when I thought I was resilient to life’s challenges, two-thirds of my identity disappeared.
Out of nowhere, I became a long-term cancer carer. Then I became a widow and was made redundant from my ideal career. I fell, broke some bones. Healed. And was diagnosed with shingles. On the outside, I smiled, but on the inside, I felt shattered, lost, alone and full of self-doubt. Suddenly, in my early 50s, I had time for myself again and didn’t know what to do with it. What happened to that 20-year-old confident, happy-go-lucky young lady? I was completely stuck and unsure of how to create the shift I needed to live a happy life.
For a long time, I chose to remain there; lost and overwhelmed by my emotions. I chose to ignore my wellness and to live life as a hermit; pretending everything was okay. It was that period of my life when I came to understand the difference between merely surviving and actually living with purpose.
One morning, I caught my reflection in the mirror. The eyes that stared back at me were unrecognisable. The deep and raw sadness in them shook me, and I came to the profound realisation that I could no longer live my life as I was.
From that moment forward, I chose to take control; rebuild my self-worth and work through the emotional baggage weighing me down. I began my journey towards true self-confidence and self-expression. First, it was a slow struggle, and each step was small. Some days I took two steps back before I could start moving forward again. Still, I made a conscious decision to start living, and I began to rediscover myself.
During this time, I learnt that true change comes from deep inner work, and it takes immense courage to reach those depths. Looking trauma in the eye is no easy feat, but when I stopped running from it, I was deeply rewarded.
I thought I knew myself well, but little did I know what I have since discovered. I have built empowering self-belief and developed some wonderful and strong relationships. My research, studies and self-discovery have led me to become better at managing my emotions, even when the going gets tough. I feel grounded and confident in who I am today. Finally, I am at peace with myself, and I want to help you to achieve the same, if not more.
In my previous career, my intention to inspire tangible change in others saw me coach many teams with proven results. Thus, my choice to become a Self Discovery Life Coach who specialises in Emotional Wellness was born out of my passions, strengths and desire for knowledge and growth.
As an empath who has overcome trauma, self-doubt and overwhelming emotions, I will walk with you every step of the way. It is my mission to empower you with self-acceptance, understanding and confidence, so you, too, have the courage and tools to live life with purpose.
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I employ models such as Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Authentic Self-Empowerment, mBraining, Mindmapping, Grow Model, Positive Psychology and Clean Coaching.
In addition to my formal certifications, I have over 30 years of management experience and have overcome significant personal challenges throughout my own life, including a lack of self-esteem and confidence.
I am always on the learning path to acquire more tools for my clients.
To learn more or sign up for a free 1-hour Get2Know Discovery Session, click here.
Are you ready to live life with more purpose?
